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Blogs > rm_play2ways > Sex on my mind

Safe sex  

rm_play2ways 58M
269 posts
4/21/2011 6:09 pm
Safe sex

Today while walking along a community trail, a woman who was in front of me and heard my footsteps suddenly stopped and moved slightly off of the trail to supposedly take in the view and then started walking again once I had gotten sufficiently in front of her. Given the recent headlines about the foreign student from China killed in Toronto, I can't blame this lady for being a bit nervous about some unknown man behind her on the trail.

It is a similar situation on Couples Dating, where we are interacting with people we don't know. And so - unlike many males here - I don't blame female members for being cautious and playing things safe. Just because a guy portrays himself online as nice and level-headed and considerate doesn't mean that he actually is so in person. Indeed, the ballistic responses by some males who have been turned down just shows that it was a good decision for the female members to reject these guys. Asking lots of questions and expecting proper answers to them before deciding to meet just makes common sense, as does wanting the first meeting to be somewhere public. Similarly, most people here state that they are d&d free even though many do not practice safe sex regularly. Thus, it just makes sense to insist on condoms for intercourse until one feels reasonably assured that the other person actually is safe.

Basically, enjoying sex and being sexually adventurous does not mean that a person needs to take unnecessary and unwise chances. And so I understand people here wanting to play it safe when it comes to interacting and meeting with other members.

jennycougar 58F
Ask me for a photo
269 posts
4/21/2011 9:46 pm

 you need to be cautious to my friend...i hate footsteps behind me...i always move off to let the person pass...nothing personal...and do you think it is wrong that i never ever want to let my partner not use condoms?...i have trust issues and actually dont like the feeling of cum inside me and have just grown used to the feel of condoms...do you think most men would mind forever using them?...lol...sorry a bit drunk, and chatty and too lazy to write my own damn blog...so whatcha think?


rm_play2ways 58M
121 posts
4/30/2011 5:52 am

 Thanks for your input. Interesting that no men chimed in on this topic - it was a good opportunity to score some brownie points by showing sensitivity on this issue.


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