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I am Not Your Plan B  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
2/25/2016 8:50 pm
I am Not Your Plan B


Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure could use one on mine.

This is my 3rd attempt to get this blog posted. The first two attempts disappeared. They were better.

And even though I started the blog, I'm going to do it as I started it the first time. I did not know how I wanted to write this blog, so I decided to use stream of consciousness.

On my profile I state that I prefer single divorced available man. I ask that if you are attached in any way, you let me know up front. This gives me the decision to decide if I want to step into anything.

The following are 2 different scenarios that ended the same way today.

The first stated for various reasons we were a good match and let me know he was married. I simply told him I was not any<b> buddies </font></b>plan B, and wished him luck. He couldn't let that go, he had to message back with a smart answer.

Another guy had stated he was separated on his profile, and had been talking to me for a week now. When it was finally said and done, he admitted he was married. We were getting to the meet n greet.

I'm not dissing anybody for what they were seeking, it was their attitude about it, that got to me.

I know there are many men and women that are plan B by choice, and for their own reasons. I have been plan B myself, and I know it's not for me.

So please guys, if you're looking for a plan B, please please look the other way when you look at my profile.

I hope everybody has a great evening.

I have had some beer. And some smoke. the only other thing that would make my night more wonderful is having somebody sitting here eating my pussy right now. Yummy


Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/25/2016 9:00 pm

    Quoting  :

Really, you are an ass. I am NOT a desperate woman. You really need to go whack off buddy...?.......

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


bisexualcharle69 59M

2/25/2016 9:06 pm

I am in the process of getting a divorce but alas I am to far away I think u r beautiful. my name charles


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/25/2016 9:09 pm

    Quoting bisexualcharle69:
    I am in the process of getting a divorce but alas I am to far away I think u r beautiful. my name charles
Awww, you are a sweetheart. ..........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/26/2016 4:31 am

    Quoting mcmaniac:
    Don't be an "A", be that guy's "B". As soon as I see "married" or "attached" I move on.
Haha mac, leave it to you. I am like you, I move on. It was their attitude, one being a smart ass, and one moving along, like it will be ok, I will bring it up after the fact.........thegrls.

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
2/28/2016 3:17 am

I don't hide the fact that I'm married when I'm talking to someone new. However, I don't consider anybody to be "Plan B". Maybe it's because of my involvement in BDSM, but my partners have specific roles. We get together at play parties, or we will schedule private time together. It has nothing to do with whether or not I'm having sex at home (which I am).

Everybody has different needs. You primarily want a time commitment that many married men would not be able to provide. However, there might be some who could.


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thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/28/2016 10:02 pm

    Quoting JustHere2Cam:
    I don't hide the fact that I'm married when I'm talking to someone new. However, I don't consider anybody to be "Plan B". Maybe it's because of my involvement in BDSM, but my partners have specific roles. We get together at play parties, or we will schedule private time together. It has nothing to do with whether or not I'm having sex at home (which I am).

    Everybody has different needs. You primarily want a time commitment that many married men would not be able to provide. However, there might be some who could.
If one is able to provide what I want that would be different. When i first started into the dating pool, I would consider married men. After several planned things being canceled by more than one, i decided to take a pass. Being a plan b is not derogatory to me, it just means for one reason or another we enjoy each others company when we can........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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