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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

distance, or within 30 minutes or less, OK 60 minutes  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
2/11/2015 5:52 am
distance, or within 30 minutes or less, OK 60 minutes

good morning, i hope this finds everybody well. And again, i am on line blogging while sitting in bed, thus, no playtime for this woman.

This is more of an observation on my part. Also, it's something I hear more often than not. How come it seems I get<b> men seeking </font></b>me out that do not live in my area.

Looking back, very few men, maybe 1 that I can think of, have lived within close proximity. That is 20 - 30 minutes from my house. Even my fb lives almost an hour away. Most of my relationships lived hours away, yea.

Distance can work in one of two ways. One, because you don't live close by, your time together seems a lil more special, thus keeping the relationship like a new one every time you come together.

Two, it may work for awhile, and then end. I for one, like it both ways. I like the newness of it every time, but I miss the walking or driving a few minutes and ending up in your bed, or whatever we decide to do.

Distance, depending on the relationship type, can also reek havoc on a relationship. I for one, prefer the person closer, keeping the relationship new and spontaneous can be accomplished anywhere with 2 willing partners.

what do you prefer, and why.

just added after the post. I prefer close distance. It seems no matter what the dude says on the other end, distance does matter. I am willing to relocate, but have not had anybody ask yet. Also, maybe distance is what many people want, that way if they are not forthcoming about their situation, they can manage their life, and what I call their double life.

I wish you luck in what you are searching for here............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
flirtyace2 48M
11 posts
2/11/2015 6:07 am

 I prefer relationship with close distance, it is better that way.


seekingsexy4fun 54M
34 posts
2/11/2015 6:16 am

 Distance is not a priority, attraction is.
Aequat homnes cinis (Seneca)


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/11/2015 6:31 am
    Quoting flirtyace2:
    I prefer relationship with close distance, it is better that way.
I agree, it just seems mine are all over an hour away, some you have to fly too. ..........................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/11/2015 6:37 am
    Quoting  :
thanks for commenting, I totally agree with your response.......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/11/2015 6:39 am
    Quoting want716:
    From my perspective, it concerns me that the females listed on the site are further away than your 20-30 minutes away notion. There are a number of people who are seeking out others, either of the same gender or opposite gender who happen to live no less than 100 miles from my location. This is the double edge sword we all hear about and it is very frustrating at best. We could act like the ranchers from out west where I lived a great deal of my life. Gather the herd together from the grazing land, put them into breeding pens, and let nature take its course. But again we don't live like that and cities and town all happen to be more than 30 minutes away.
I agree with you as well, getting across town can take more than 30 minutes if you live in a mid size city or town.........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/11/2015 6:41 am

 the attraction can be there, but what does it do, when say you have not seen that person since december and it's feb, and whatever. depending on the situation, if its fwb, we all have backups, and if it's not a serious distance relationship, a person can play at home, and then see the person when they want to. It's a double edge sword....................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/11/2015 6:45 am

 Of course, if one or both of the people are attached/married, distance is great, you can keep one life separate from the other.................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/11/2015 4:16 pm
    Quoting saw_guy:
    Damn, this one is complicated. I drove a hour and a half, for 10 months to see a woman once, not just on weekends, but 2-3 through the week. Yeah,it was that good. I guess distance had something to do with it ending, but certainly not the deal-breaker. Maybe it has more to do with the emotion involved. I don't think I would have drove that far just for sex. This post is one of your best. Sure has given me something to think about. GREAT WORK!!
wow, thanks for the comments. i have driven from ky to exit 4 off the new jersey turnpike because that's were he was working at the time. i did this for months, what happened, he had another life. That seems to run in my life. anyway, i get hit on my men from all over the country. if you want a relationship, you either come here or get me there. no more driving hours, i have enough playmates close to home................................thegrls.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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