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To/From the curious but nervous
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To/From the curious but nervous So here we are, 20 years later, still fantasizing and thinking we might explore. When I'm sure - she's not. When she's sure, I'm not. But we are together. Never pushing, never forcing - always accepting. We don't have to do it to be happy, right? But if it is fun and enjoyable, and we do it together it's not cheating - it's something WE did together. You only live once. Where is our youth? What happen to our sense of adventure and spontanaity? "What if you think I'm a slut?", "What if you think you won't be mad - but then you are mad?", "What if I like it TOO much?" "We would have to go away. It would have to be with someone we wouldn't have to see again - not a good friend. And what would we be doing? Is it just oral? Shoud we do a threesome first? With a woman, or a man?" After having this discussion (over 100 times) we usually are pretty excited - and then we bang and go to sleep. "We won't ever plan it," we say. But if it happens naturally it happens. And with four and jobs - what are the chances. |
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SO true to life! Well stated. We want...we talk...we fantasize and usually we leave it at at that Life's too short!! The risks are only as bad as we make them out to be...so often its just that gentle nudge is all that we need. YOUR chances are vastly improved I would say if you keep showing that pic! Damn! Butch
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9/26/2010 12:56 pm |
Thanks! Which pic is the one you saw? So you two are in the same position? I bet we have had the exact same conversations. Whatever you do, I hope it works out for you.
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That's the thing about being curious, you think hmm, maybe,then forget it, then it sometimes comes back. And if someone contacts you about it you chicken out. But one never knows.
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9/30/2010 1:36 pm |
True, but we are up front. I say - we are looking and when we are ready we would be interested. I don't want to lead anyone on... We are probably over thinking the whole thing. My next blog will be a copy of our e mails to each other discussing the whole thing. Thanks for the comment!
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2/1/2011 9:00 am |
Loved reading this. It's what my x wife and I went through years. I still wonder if it had anythng to do with the divorce. I had already experienced 3somes and such, and she hadn't when we met. so as engaged we called on a male friend of mine, and a female friend of hers. 2 different occassions, and once with each. We loved it even though it tends to be a little nervousnous in the beginning. We had no regrets at all and if anything wished it could have continued on a routine or periodic basis.The crazy thing is we talked nand talked and talked about when how where what and who so much that it just never happened again for us. We are still friends and all which is great. I am now single and in a new relationship with a woman who when I even speak about it, looks at me as if don't even think about asking me to do that. So now I am discreetly still looking to fulfill that void.Like someone else said. Jump into it and just do it. But it is always better to have a discussion first whether diner or drinks. I love your honesty and fantasies. Let me know if I can help. 
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Hi mwcin MD very interesting blog. i like the way your frank discussion includes a lot of uncertainties on your parts and also honest and up front exchanges with your "fans" youre fine with ass play and strap ons, 3 sums if they happen "naturally"...have a busy life with kids and such AND have great in shape bodies AND are willing to have an open mind about sexy fun...great! i hope we can start a dialogue soon. i love the idea of catching you two in a conversation or meeting during one of your "horny weeks" keep up the good stuff and again would enjoy hearing back
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