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Do people use protection for oral?
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Do people use protection for oral? While making plans for this weekend, we met a couple that sounds perfect, is into all the same stuff and has the same fantasies, our schedules work, conversation is moving smoothly... basically too good to be true and a huge breath of fresh air compared to most of our contacts so far. Then... we're chatting about scenario specifics, and we ask if they use protection for oral swap? The reaction was kind of shocking, basically laughing and wishing us luck finding anyone who would go for that. Now ignoring the way people can loose it over an innocent question and inadvertently show a little of their true crazy... we get it, maybe it's not the coolest sexiest thing to do but, but it's the right thing... right? Assuming we aren't getting to know each other over time or sharing recent test results (which I'm sure they'd laugh even harder at)... how do you just stick a strangers cock in your mouth or dive into some random pussy without a condom or ... um... what do you use for pussy? dental dam? saran wrap? We aren't being facetious, we're seriously asking. We aren't talking about drunken bad judgement nights where stuff happens and it's hot and then you worry in the morning. We've been there done that but if we want that we can just go to any bar and make it happen. We're talking about being "safe, sane, and consensual", about agreeing on a scenario in advance and having respect and boundaries. Because our understanding is that you CAN catch stuff from oral, and I'm sorry but as nice as these people are we just aren't going to take their word for it just to get off for an hour. We've heard and read too many stories. Tinder in Vegas anyone? So what's up, are we prudes who don't belong here and are never getting past<b> first base </font></b>with anyone else? Or is it ok to ask for protection when sucking a strangers cock or pussy?!? |
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1 post 10/25/2016 9:26 am |
the logical answer is yes everyone should, but the practical answer hardly anyone does. here is why. up to 25% of the population has hsv2. 70-90% of those people dont know they have it because the initial outbreak is mistaken for something so they never get tested. the antibody test is not 100% accurate and the culture test is not 100%. if the culture test is done, then medical observation can conclude the outbreak is hsv2 should the culture test come back negative which is rare. false negative tests are rare but they do happen with both tests. hsv2 can infect the mouth but that is not its preferred site. vice versa hsv1 can infect the genital area, but that is not its preferred site. infection at a non preferred site can happen, but not often.
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Thanks, so what I'm hearing is 69 is probably safer than french kissing and intercourse?
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Nice to hear from you btw 
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You can get hiv from a blowjob. But not from kissing. You are not unreasonable to ask for protection.
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We get tested regular and do not have any form of sex with someone who cannot produce a cleanliness cert done very recent. That way bareback is OK
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It's been a little more than 2 years since you posted this blog entry, but I thought I'd weigh in..... No, I assure you, you're not prudes for being concerned about STDs! What you are is responsible, careful adults! Back in the day, when I first got involved with "swinging," There were very few STDs, Gonorrhea and Syphilis….and the crabs. but very few people had them. If you did get something, you could go to the doctor, and get a shot. That all changed in the early '80s....Herpes burst on the scene then shortly after, HIV/AIDS shocked the world. Soon, HPV was being spread, and so many others. Today, only a total idiot would ever do anything sexual with strangers without using protection. I only go without protection with people I've known for quite some time, and trust. These people are very selective and careful about who they share sex with, and, like me, get tested on a regular basis. It's worked for me as I've never caught anything. Sadly, more and more people are sharing with others without using protection, and many of the STDs are increasing, even HIV/AIDS....just check the CDC webpage, and if any strangers laugh at you for being cautious, tell them to check out their webpage! I never rush into anything with others, and I only play with those who are also VERY careful.
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Thanks we appreciated the reply. We figured the same. This one is mint flavored  [image]
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