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What are we all looking for?  

rm_boofataz11 43M
1 posts
5/12/2010 12:34 am
What are we all looking for?

I was just curious and I guess wanted to get some collective feedback of what women on this site are looking for the most. I would also like to get feedback on what guys should and should not do when emailing ladies on here so that I may repost it in hopes of showing some of these douchebags some manners on how to behave. I know this is a sex site but that doesn't mean all respect goes out the window. I know that guys are supposed to take charge and some women like to be submissive in the bedroom but thats where it belongs. You wouldn't walk a lady down the street with a<b> collar </font></b>and a ball gag in her mouth would you? Ok I'm off my soapbox for now. Just give me your thoughts.

Alex

lukn4fun43 50M/47F

6/22/2010 7:29 am

 Hey. I know exactly what you're sayn. Some of the guys on this site are immediate turn offs for sure! Actually, my husband and I have been on this site once before. We are very open with each other and have times when we simply want to do something crazy. However, we were getting tire of always having some moron talkn dirty. Last time we met some nice people, but our best experience has been one in which we have pretty much developed a friend relationship with. As the female in the relationship, that has been important for me. For me it makes everything more...how do I put this...like it just happens in the moment. I hate the feeling of "setting up" or "planning" sex. That is a major turn off. I would rather plan going out for the evening just to hang out and have a good time, if it leads to more then yay! So I commend you on your whole outlook on all this. Respect is a must.


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