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To Host or Not To Host...?
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To Host or Not To Host...? I don't host. I used to but I've really grown uncomfortable bringing men into my space. This seems to be causing a bit of a problem in my sex life. It seems that most men my age have that live with them, at least part of the time. I'm cool with that. But is there really anything wrong with meeting at a hotel? Not asking you to pay... asking you to split it. Let's face it... we're meeting for sex. Most men on here are searching for the elusive NSA relationship. So why should I, being a single woman who lives alone, give a stranger my address? Yes, we've exchanged a few dozen emails. Yes, we've exchanged face pics. But... that doesn't mean you're not potential stalker material. It doesn't mean you won't come drunk-knocking at my door at 3am. My home is my sanctuary. It's my private space. It's where I feel safe and comfortable and free. Unless I'm in a relationship of some sort, bringing a man here is an invasion of that space. Look, I'm just like you guys. I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm looking for hard and dirty sex. We might meet again, we might not. Regardless, it's just sex. Only sex. Does meeting at a hotel really make it any sleazier than it already is? No one has to worry about it not being discrete, no one has to worry about clean sheets, there's no awkward question about how long to stay, everybody goes home sated and safe. I've gotten a little push-back on this policy... a little of the "Well, you have your own place and you don't have any ... why can't I just come over there?" Maybe men don't really understand the danger a woman faces on here. I don't know about anyone else, but the Craig's List killer is never far from my mind when I'm setting up a liaison. Yes, that happened in a hotel room, but at least at a hotel, I've got a fighting chance of someone hearing me scream. And I don't have to worry about some creep knowing where I live. And, no, I don't mind going to your place. Looks can be deceiving, but I can get a good idea of the type of person you are from your neighborhood, the place you live in, etc. No meeting is ever 100% safe. Even if you meet for drinks first, you're still not guaranteed of not being assaulted or robbed behind closed doors. My #1 defense is my gut... my 2nd defense is not telling you where I live. Pay by the hour is fine. We don't need 4-star accommodations. Just a bed and a shower and we're good to go. I'm just wondering how other single women on here feel. Do you host? “An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away." ~ Mae West |
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My home is my sanctuary. It's my private space. It's where I feel safe and comfortable and free. My thoughts exactly! I don't like strangers knowing where I live. Too many things can go wrong....too many bad things can happen. It's just not safe. Sad commentary on today's society, but it's too true. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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9/12/2010 2:06 pm |
I totally agree with you..would prefer to go to a hotel .....get as crazy as ya wanna be.....I too believe that your home is sanctuary although I have no kids at home anymore ...
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