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Soul mate
Soul mate What if we did find our soul mate but couldn't be with them?The reasons could be vast.Situations like,, Too far away. Do we try to comment,,is it possible to fall in love by phone/IM?How long would that relationship last that way?How far would we go to be with one another.Would we quit our jobs and move together completely away from others?Are the distant people more open,,knowing that a actual meet/commitment is impossible?They are just needing conversation to excite then selves or a feeling of belonging to a group? Time willing to spend. How much time is good for a healthy relationship?What if one of us felt that the other is working too much or at odd hours.Do we find other work to have love?Is the love of money greater than the love between us?I know that a couple should not spend every waking hour together,,we all need time apart. Other family members. People who has ,,are we going to be a secret?Are we going have to meet on every other weekend when you have the ?Are the going to except you having a girlfriend?Is your parents//family/friends going to accept this/me? Commitments.. How far would you take this commitment?Just dating,,just sex,,just a once in a while itch?Are we going to live part time with each other or full time..Are you going to move to me or I, to you?Are we going to exchange rings?Are we going to be exclusive to one another? How far would we go to be with our mate? My answer to that is;,,,What ever it takes for me to be with you,,I am willing to give! I don't sleep around.I must have the mental stimulation for intimate affairs to happen.I am not here for fun.I do like to make friends and mail each other.I don't like the pushing,let's meet all the time conversations.I am/will be the committed girl/wife that you want,,or maybe you don't want. I need to belong to someone,,not in the controlling fashion but a loving one,,and be loved back.Whether it is with one,,two or more..A small circle of lovers would be acceptable.No sneaking around everybody up front.I always see the good in everybody before the bad out shadows the good.Let's face it,,,there are bad people,,and I am sure they are here. As the days go on,,,I can feel my heart growing opening up more all the time.I read peoples letters and it stirs me,,emotionally.Hope we can grow together...........Candi |
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Beautiful words from a beautiful gurl.
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I do know how you feel Gunther about having that empty feeling.A lot of people on here use others to fill the void,,or a lot of others.Even though they do have "loved" ones at home,,they still seem to want more,,or little more. In true love,,others with commitments with others can be worked around,,with pleasure....Hugs...Candi
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Candi....... As always you are like a ray of pure sunshine warming my face. Very beautiful....causing introspection and just making us feel good. You are truly special....Namaste sweetie......Jen
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When I found mine, I quit my job, listed my house for sale, and moved 900 miles away. For true love, I'd do pretty much anything and everything.
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Sonand I would consider moving,I could sell my business then I could easily retire,,then again,,could hire a manager to do my everyday decision making and keep it going.. But I just finished with my dream house last year,,I would hate to leave that..It would be great to find a retired or semi retired love, where we could stay in different parts of the country seasonally. Jen,,,Dear! It is always a pleasure to hear from you,,I think the rays of sunshine,,,is coming from you!!!!Love ya,hun...Candi
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Candi hun....you always make me smile....LOVE YOU too
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