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Are you seeking a mate or someone to have fun with online
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Are you seeking a mate or someone to have fun with online Do people find Mates here, or is this a fun online site for casual amusement? I looked at many people, and there is a good percentage who look really nice people, (like me too..) and I wonder what brings you to a site like this....blatant sex...when you can find friends as easily on Pure Friendship sites. Why a sex site? Does everyone here simply want sex? |
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4/17/2009 10:30 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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4/19/2009 6:00 am |
wouldnt mind chatting to you to discuss the question sometime
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Having been a member of this site for several years, I have made many good friends and I'm sure some people do find their mates here, but being a sex site I can only summise that most are here to get laid (where possible)dependant to each person's individual needs or requirements. Though I have noticed that many women here lately are only seeking relationships and not sex - After all, that's why they call it "Couples Dating" when they would be far better suited to searching for that on a dating or friendship sites like RSVP or date.com. Personally, I'm often left shaking my head wondering why some women bother do that? Especially, when they're not interested in casual sex and/or NSA FUN whatsoever. Just seems like a pointless exercise in time wastage and futility to me - but then each to their own!!!
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Ah!!!! You have seen women on here again from your own eyes only. If you don't get sex immediately, the women are to blame because they are here for a relationship not for just sex. How narrow is that view. Let me clarify women for you from my side of the female fence. Yes, we are here to see if we can find a man we can have sex with. However, when we meet the man and find that what attracted us originally online is not there, we change, and being women, decide we should be friends, and that maybe the sexual attraction will come after a few outings, but in reality it doesn't. If the sex attraction is not there from the first actual meeting, it just is not there. Let me explain a bit more. I went to meet a man because his photo on here really attracted me. All he had from me was a fuzzy eye. I had a full length thumbnail that showed a sexy looking guy...blonde hair, straight body, looked tall and fit, and he was standing on a beach...the Aussie surfer maybe. I was very attracted to him physically, even if I did not tell him this before we met. I went eager to meet with him, and jump straight into bed, to live out all my deep rooted fantasies. Alas!!! He had grey, stained teeth. He was far older than I expected, and he came late for our date, and he was very casually dressed. I loved his car but I could not bring out one iota of sexual magnetism towards him at all. I was so sad. My fantasy died the moment I opened the door to him. We had lunch, and again I sort of imagined maybe something would happen. It didn't. He was late, took me to a dingy restaurant, and let me eat the day's special, and rushed off to a meeting after. I knew again we had nothing in common. I would have given myself a far better lunch. I did not bother to contact him again nor did he contact me. He did tell me his younger partner had just broken off with him, and that I should look to a younger man too. I simply felt sad for him as if he was 'too old' for me, he would also be 'too old' for a younger lady. Yes, women are here seeking sex, but we still have standards. Women like me want someone to maybe think we are worthy of a fresh shirt and washed hair...at least on the first, so important meeting and virtual date. You cannot smell a man online, or see details like unclean teeth, or stale hair. I had my hair done, wore my new clothes and tried to look as if I had prepared for our meeting. He came 'just as he was' so I could see him 'as he was' The thing was I did not like him that way. I wanted my fantasy. Maybe virtual sex is the answer so we can keep our fantasy that he is as cool as what we project him to be. I went on a 3D site where the guys came on dressed in cool gear, and I was a young babe too. Maybe this is better than reality. No the 'friend sites' are definetely not for women who want sex. Ever woman here is also wanting sex...even me...but we don't want to admit it too openly. I have friends, what I am seeking is that magic Lover and I won't find it on a non sexual website. I know I have more chance of finding it here.  Maybe I should be bold and seek the younger man as its become obvious that the man in my age group does not attract me, nor d I attract him.
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Every one is different. And who knows who you will find until you have a look.
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most want sex & if a permanent thing happens thats great I suppose why else would we be here H
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Its not about sex it is also about meeting open minded people who are a bit less uptight. I have friends from a decade of visiting here in Couples Dating and over time my Couples Dating friends have remained friends. Sometimes the dating sites can just be so difficult to just chat and have a laugh
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