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Is there such a thing as too much?
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Is there such a thing as too much?  I am very fortunate to have a number of friends, both men and women, who enjoy having<b> group sex. </font></b>Over the past number of years, I've been able to enjoy having all KINDS of group sex, as well as one-on-one of course, and as you all know, I just LOVE those group gropes. This is all leading somewhere, I promise. I just wanted to make sure that any 'new' readers, knew where I was coming from  LOLOne thing that I'm always cognizant of is trying to avoid becoming 'jaded' towards sex and people in general. It's not quite as easy as you might think my friends. After having been with SO many people, it sometimes becomes VERY difficult to see and treat people as people and it's something I work on continually. My friends are NOT just a nice pussy or a hard throbbing cock, they are SO much more and have lifes, needs, desires and dreams just like I do. They are NOT just sex objects! I care deeply about my group of friends/lovers and I try to express that in many ways regardless of just having sex but sometimes, it all just becomes too much!! Because of that, I've actually cut my 'activites' back to a very dull roar if you will. Part of this is in deference to my beloved 'Mona' who while 'game', has never really had the love of<b> group sex </font></b>that I have and part of it is the fact that I had reached a point where it was all just TOO much. Hell at one point a couple of years ago, it was routine for me to fuck/suck 2-3 guys in a week AND to have sex with 3-4 different women in that same week. Sometimes all together, a lot of times one-on-one and well, virtually any combination you can think of. In a lot of ways that was just TOO much and once 'Mona' moved in with me, in a lot of ways, it was totally unfair to her. These days, I am MUCH more interested in quality over quantity if that makes sense? Either way, it was waaaay too much. I know there are some out here who'd LOVE to have this problem but trust me, it's not quite as enviable a position to be in as you might think! Have you ever experienced this? I KNOW I'm not the only one and I'd love to hear your thoughts! Have a VERY happy Friday all -tm |
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I understand totally what you mean... although at the moment I am not in that phase.
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Too much of anything can lead to burnout, regardless of how pleasurable it is. I definitely saw a lot of burnout at the local kink club as many people took the summer off, leaving some parties with such low attendance that they closed early. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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yes, I am there. I have had some wild sex in my past, but now I am looking for something else. Tell me about it.
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Never too many as far as I can see Tazz hugsssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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You've moved from being a gourmand to an epicurean! Either way, keep enjoying those meals to the fullest! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Much of this resonates. I went through a longish period - about 4 years - where I was super active with group stuff and had a circle of FWBs. It was a heady period - lots of fun, playing, love, learning. And I don't regret a second. That being said, things change. And I can't imagine going back there. Not because I think there is anything wrong with it - it's just not what floats my boat now. And that's the key to me - doing what is true to myself and honoring that, even when it shifts. That period really worked for me because that's what got me going, where I felt my joy. Good for you for allowing it to be what works for you and your partner! Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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