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Paramour  

Insindiary 52M
263 posts
11/20/2010 7:47 am
Paramour

Samantha texted me at work.

Her: thank you for being my friend and not hitting on me.

Me: hey baby. What are you wearing?

Her: lol

She stopped by my office later and talked to me about it. Samantha and Keith have been having some problems. She got custody of her again, which is wonderful, but it sounds like Keith was not quite ready to step into the role of being a daddy. Samantha planned to leave him and was looking at buying a house when I last talked to her.

Since then, things have gotten better between them, and they are staying together. It was during that rough patch with Keith that Samantha's other<b> platonic </font></b>male friend decided to make his move. That put Samantha in an awkward place. Now it's hard for her to hang out with him, go to lunch, go to the gym with him etc., because she knows he wants more from her.

Truthfully, I think the guy is kind of a dumbass. I've worked with him for years. He's not a villainous character by any means. Just small minded and somewhat capricious. He's single, and reportedly popular with the ladies. In fact, Lilith fucked him some time ago. She never did it again. She said his sex play was painful and clumsy. I was not surprised that he hit on Samantha. I'm just surprised that he waited until there was even a hint of trouble in her primary relationship.

"He always talks about all the girls he dates," she told me. "Most of the time when we hang out, he's always telling me about the women he's been with. I mean really, even if I DID want to date him, does he really think that being with so many women is a turn on for me? It's disgusting."

"Disgusting," I agreed, passively.

Of course, I've never told Samantha about all the women I date. And I've never hinted that I find her attractive, which I do. Samantha is quite vanilla and very traditional. When we started hanging out together, she needed a friend, not a paramour. I followed my instincts with her, and always kept our friendship light, and very much only a friendship.

It's times like these when I feel vindicated in following my instincts; not that I ever had much temptation to hit on Samantha. The guy that DID has probably lost her friendship.


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