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The Coffee Girl
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The Coffee Girl The Coffee Girl I recently had a fun experience on Couples Dating that I am feeling the need to share. This runs a little bit on kissing and telling, but done with her permission. Back story: I work a horrible schedule of an early swing shift, and Sundays. In the mornings, I have nothing to do with my time, but can’t really do much fun stuff because I have to be at work at noon. That gives me about 5 hours of spare time before work. For the last 9 months or so, I have been filling that time with work related study. I’m working on what is basically a master’s of insurance. Not really exciting stuff, but it’s as good of a use of my time as any. I study in the GU library most mornings, and grab a coffee on my way there. I am a social and flirty guy. I learned a long time ago that if servers (like the coffee girls) like me, I get more and better coffee from them. So I’m chatty with the coffee girls every morning. One of them “C” is a very cute 19yr old. We will call her Coffee Girl (CG) from here on. I started off with CG on the wrong foot. I offended her terribly the first day I met her. But over time we got to chatting, then she got to liking me, and she progressively told me more and more about herself. She’s a smart girl from a low income family. She’s at the community college and working her way through school. The more we chatted, the more I was able to offer constructive advice about school and work opportunities after school. We also chatted a bit about our dating lives. Monday mornings she would ask if I had any “dates” and I would tell her the PG version of what I was doing. She knew about the on-line dating, but not about Couples Dating specifically. But she could infer that it was something of a “hook up” site. One morning, it was slow and she and I chatted for about a half an hour. As I went to leave, she said that she “really likes talking with me, and can she give me a call sometime?” Moral dilemma here. I’m 34, she’s 19. I am 15 years, or close to twice her age. She’s hot! Blond, thin, fit, smart, and way too young. I deferred and I told her to look me up on Facebook if she wanted to chat instead. She never did. My Story I get on IM and leave the web cam on. It gets me some attention from people that I normally would not get, like standard members. Unfortunately, most of the initial contacts that I get on Couples Dating IM are 80% spammers, 15% gay boys pretending to be women, and about 5% actual girls that have taken the plunge to contact me first. I usually answer the IMs if I see them. A few weeks ago, I get an IM from a new person. I look at her profile and there is nothing in it and it was created that day. Highly indicative that it’s a spammer. I say hi, and we start chatting. No immediate demands that I go to “this other web site”, or “chat here  #x201D; or that I “show my dick”, so I was encouraged. Further, they were using correct articles and indefinite articles (“a” “an” “the” so they spoke English (= not Russian or Nigerian), and she used very little “txt spk”. On the other hand, the profile said 19 yrs old, skinny, blond, blue eyes, 32 B, current student, so I was more than skeptical. As time went on though, we chatted more and more. Every night for about two weeks we chatted, so I became convinced that she was a real person, if not honest about whom she was. Most of the chat was fairly platonic, but there was an increasing about of flirting. Eventually I asked for pictures. She didn’t have a web cam, but she sent me some cell phone pics. They were too good to be true, and they all had “the angles” and none showed her face. I continued to be skeptical, but by this time she had discussed classes at the community college that she is or has taken, including with a professor that is a good friend of mine. So there was a lot of evidence that she was a real person, actually here in Spokane, and actually interested in me. Bluntly, I figured that she was going to be fat, hence why she didn’t want to show herself. Big girls need lovin’ too, so I was not opposed to the idea. Eventually we got to the discussion about meeting up and hooking up. All of my first date thoughts were rejected because she’s under 21. So eventually we decided that we would just meet for coffee at the local franchise coffee place near by on a Tuesday evening. I show up and sit down. I noticed Coffee Girl sitting there in normal street clothes (this is not the same place that she works). She made eye contact with me and smiled and came over to my table. “What are you doing at *this* coffee shop” she asked sarcastically as if I were cheating on her. I told her that I was there to meet a girl for a first date. “Oh yeah, where is she, I want to get a look at her.” She says disbelievingly after hearing the most PG versions of many of my dating success and disaster stories. “Well, I don’t think she’s here yet, it’s kind of a blind date.” I explained somewhat evasively. “So you don’t even know who this girl is?” she asked. “Well, we’ve chatted a bunch, but I haven’t seen any pictures of her yet.” I explained. “Hmmm. Not sure if I believe you.” She says incredulously. I ducked the subject, and turned it back on her “what are you doing at *this* (coffee shop)?” with the same jokingly accusatory tone. She gets a sly smile and says “oh…I’m meeting up with a guy I’ve been chatting with on Couples Dating…” I was dumbfounded. Totally taken off my guard, and had no idea it was her. But the second she said it, it all made sense. She explained that she’s had a crush on me for months, she figured out that I was on Couples Dating and a few other “casual dating” sites, so she contacted me there. She didn’t want to post a pic because she sees so many guys on Couples Dating that come through her work. She said that she gets offered “donations” at least once a week as it is. The evening progressed well, and turned into one of the most exciting Couples Dating adventures I’ve had yet. I feel a little like a dirty old man, but she pursued me, so I’ll justify it that way. We have seen each other several times now, and I enjoy it a little more each time. There are two pertinent morals to this story of immorality First is this, I have found that by being friendly, social, and respectful to people in day to day life, it really catches the attention of the right people. By being friendly, it caught the attention of a really beautiful, hot, young woman. By listening to what she had to say, and participating in conversations with her, I kept her attention. Second, while usually the old adage stands “if it is too good to be true, then if probably is”, but once in a while, “good things just might happen.” 
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