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Ten years on AFF. Thanks for the memories.  

Lingering_Lens 55M  
14 posts
7/17/2015 11:55 am
Ten years on AFF. Thanks for the memories.

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LongJonSilverrr 46M
51 posts
2/14/2017 11:53 am

... and now I know why "Lens".
(Nikon or Canon ?!?)**

This was an interesting post, thank you.
You, 10 yrs. Me, not much over 10 days.
I'm still trying to "get a feel for" the site, and how to use it best, to meet people ... and I've started -- maybe mistakenly? -- on the presumptive basis (or basEs):
- there are, as you say, MANY fake profiles
- most are here looking for sex / hookups
- some MAY be looking for something "longer term"
- I might wish to continue "getting a feel for" the site / its users, at the free level, for awhile, before forking over my hard-earned for what might be nothing.. (ie no results / meetings, or more/beyond)
- the site may be more of a "meat market" than balanced...

I certainly could stand to be proven wrong, but perhaps one might understand my initial scepticism..?

I wonder, then, if your 10 yrs experience in Couples Dating informs you much differently than my "newbie" presumptions?
( .. and of course I know the old saying about assumptions..) ;]

LJS
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Lingering_Lens 55M  
59 posts
2/18/2017 1:31 pm

Hi Long Jon - I think it's ironic you posted on Valentine's day.

Sure as hell little romance on here - though it does spring up on occassional offline meetings eventually.

If people were here for sex it would be something - most are her to look at pictures as cheap porn - flirt idly as a fantasy and then not show up. I hear this more from frustrated women who've been let down rather than men. If a woman says she will show up - she generally does.

So lots of Trump like hot air blowers who are too timid to take it offline I think.

My average is that 1 in 10 women respond and then show up for a session.

90% are too shy, too busy or don't like the look of me!

btw - I'm a Canon man


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