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Blogs > drtyliltrker41 > Changing Lanes Can Be Good

Am I A Racist Bigot??  

drtyliltrker41 56F
193 posts
12/30/2008 7:26 am

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1/3/2009 7:28 pm
Am I A Racist Bigot??

I opened my e-mail this morning and there was a note from a very handsome, articulate African American gentleman, or so I thought at the time, who expressed interest in meeting me for some adult fun. Well, as I usually do, I replied to his e-mail explaining that I had no interest in an interracial sexual fling but would welcome his<b> platonic </font></b>friendship with no problem. He then sent another back accusing me of being, and I quote, "A white racist B***h." And he went on to say some other rather nasty things that I won't repeat. No, I don't like hip-hop music. No, I don't wear African American inspired clothing. Yes, I do read books written by African Americans. Yes, I have an African American doctor. Yes, I have worked with and still do with African American people whom I consider my friends. Yes, one of my closest friends is African American. And Yes, I love my Brother-in-law, who is 6ft10 and African American. Why am I a racist just because I am not attracted to a sexual relationship with an African American? Yes, it is an adult site for sexual escapades but does that mean I have to prove I am not racist by sleeping with someone I have no attraction to what so ever? I won't lie and say that I am not angry because I am and I guess that's why I am writing this blog but I am mostly confused by my so called racist attitude from a person who knows absolutely nothing about me other than the fact I prefer having sex within my own race. If that makes me a racist bigot, so be it!!!!

rm_sxsrch3 39M
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1/3/2009 2:27 am

 You are not racist. You have preferances. We all do. Happy New Year.
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drtyliltrker41 replies on 1/3/2009 4:47 am:
[/COLOR I def have my own preferences Hon Hope you had a Happy new Year also. Nice to see you're still kicking {=}

milkman32008 64M
1973 posts
12/30/2008 2:07 pm

 Don't let him get ya in an uproar. You do what you want to do , see who you want to see sweetie.


drtyliltrker41 replies on 12/30/2008 2:38 pm:
[/COLOR Believe me , I always do exactly what I want Sweetie. I hope youre doing okay up there in the Blizzard state.

Harfordgentleman 54M
233 posts
12/30/2008 12:17 pm

 Based on the evidence you provided, I would say no, you are not a racist bigot. I get many more emails from men than women and nowhere on my profile does it even hint that I am looking for men. People tend to read what they want to read and hear what they want to hear. We all have preferences in life.


drtyliltrker41 replies on 12/30/2008 2:36 pm:
[/COLOR I will admit that it isn't on my profile BUT I was kinda thinking that I wouldn't try to limit my platonic friendships based on the color of a persons skin either. And yes some people read only the parts that they like. go figure. Thanks for peeping in Hon

rm_Mz_Mrx 57F
137 posts
12/30/2008 8:27 am

 Don't let his issues become yours

You were upfront, honest, and respectful. Not everyone is everyone else's thing.


drtyliltrker41 replies on 12/30/2008 2:44 pm:
[/COLOR Yes I was!!! It's that southern thing. Nice to meet you

divawoman4real 67F
113 posts
12/30/2008 8:26 am

 I have to respond to your blog dryliltrker41. Only because I've also been accused of bveing a bigot or racist against my own race! This couple that I don't even know that was also on this site, accused me of not liking Black men?? This couple didn't know me from Adam! So I don't know how they made that assumption. Maybe they looked at my groups that I am involved in which are basically Black Women for White men etc. But whom i date and why I date them is no one's business except my own. At the end of the day, what really matters and really counts is that I treated that person with respect, and kindness, not because of his race but because he belongs to a bigger race called the human race. I wouldn't let that person's opinion of you bother you so much. Just feel bad for him that his to judge you because he didn't get what he wanted. Which was sex with a hot White women.
Take Care, a Happy New Year.
DIVAWOMAN4REAl
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drtyliltrker41 replies on 12/30/2008 2:47 pm:
[/COLOR And NOT knowing me is what made me so angry. Assumptions make an ass out of people all the time. Thanks for leaving a footprint.

rm_19harley86 74M
45446 posts
12/30/2008 8:21 am

 Just because you don't agree with something ,doesn't mean you are a racist.
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drtyliltrker41 replies on 12/30/2008 2:48 pm:
[/COLOR My thoughts exactly Hon. Hope your Holidays were good to you{=}

DivaMajesty1 44F

12/30/2008 8:20 am

 eh...

i would'nt say you were racist. believe it or not, i have had other african-american men call me 'racist' (mind you i'm of african-american decent)and make such statements that i've 'abandoned the brothas' and such. i think it is a matter of preference. who cares what you prefer. my advice to you is to ignore the crap. you know who you are and those who associate with you know as well. remember, a strong percentage of the people on this site are morons.. with that being said, heed my advice.. ignore it


drtyliltrker41 replies on 12/30/2008 2:51 pm:
[/COLOR I did just that. I like what I like and thats that. Nice to meet you

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