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Blogs > CPLhessen4U2 > Swinging in Germany

The other side of Gold membership!  

CPLhessen4U2 58M/57F
73 posts
10/2/2010 3:18 am

Last Read:
12/6/2011 12:50 pm
The other side of Gold membership!

We were Gold on this site for a few years and then decided to go standard. There are some major differences between the two. It does suck not to reach out and touch that person or persons that you would like to get with. Not seeing the videos also is not good. But the lack of being able to contact others is the key problem.

We would hope that others would contact us more but we are sure that everyone does!! We send flirts and add hotlists but, does that really do any good on Couples Dating?

What do others do to reach out for the chance to "touch" someone? Any tips out there that may help us?

We hope to hear from you. Maybe the BLOG is the way to go.
Have a great day all!!

T and D
We are here and we are interested!!
asses2mouthhaha 45M
Ask me for a photo
11 posts
4/9/2011 9:14 am

 Thanks for the nice words guys! I too hope we can get things moving here with the BLOG!

Cheers and best of luck with your standard membership, I reckon it's got more style
If you cut off my head, what would I say? Me and my head, or me and my body?


jery122 44M

1/31/2011 1:45 am

 Yes its very hard to reach out. I found being a male on here is even harder. I know showing as a female would help some on seeing and sending emails. I too have sent hotlists and sometimes flirts when able. But it seems it doesn't get very far on waiting for others to reach out to you. I also have chat up and maybe hit people up on chat when i see them on. That might help you out some.


TabulosRomatisch 58M
5 posts
1/30/2011 5:20 am

 So
please contact me. You can reach me when you use the same nick at hotmaildotcom.

Look forward to hear from you soon.


TabulosRomatisch 58M
5 posts
1/22/2011 12:22 pm

 I am here and I am real.
I am interested in meeting you and have fun together.

Kisses


CPLhessen4U2 58M/57F
61 posts
1/2/2011 11:58 am

 We can understand that. Arent you a woman? It seems to us anyway that woman are getting more mail and chances than couples or single men. Thanks for commenting on our BLOG and we would love to know more about you. We have found that the BLOGS and IM feature can still allow you to connect sometimes. Otherwise, as standards we are pretty left out as well.
We are here and we are interested!!


2forfunKtown 65M/64F
130 posts
11/10/2010 12:00 pm

 T&D, We found it very hard too. Rarely does anyone send emails unless you laready have a relationship. Couples Dating makes it almost impossible to be anything but gold to initiate a meet. We tried posting our email for our friends to write, none did.

Not sure this helps but that is our point of view from in and out of the Gold world.

C&P


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