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Blogs > FallonSteve1 > Eyes of a Stranger Blog

Serivce Top - clarification  

FallonSteve1 51M
15 posts
12/7/2014 11:24 am

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12/10/2014 9:44 am
Serivce Top - clarification

I was messaging a friend and they thought I was bisexual because I said I was a Service Top because according to the Urban Dictionary it is something that only applies to gays but this is not true. It can apply to any that fits the following discription:

Service Top
a Service Top is a partner who is the active participant, applying the activities or techniques of BDSM "play" upon (a) bottom partner(s), but who does not dominate the bottom, and instead acts upon the wishes and desires of the bottom. The application of various BDSM techniques may be requested, or even directed, by the bottom partners(s) who have de facto control of the context.

So as I said to my friend, basically if you ask me to do something like put you in bondage, put clothespins on your nipples and flog you, I will do it because you want me to, not because I am trying to Dominate you. []

I am a Service Top because I like providing pleasure to the person I am with, regardless of if I am receiving any in return. I mean, don't get me wrong, I love having a partner pleasure me, but there are times when all I want to do is pleasure them and that is all.

Anyone else feel this way?

trythisagain66 57M
1918 posts
12/9/2014 1:39 am

 Relying on Urban Dictionary for definitions is like submitting a doctoral thesis solely sourced from Wikipedia.

The only woman I ever Dom'd, I started as a service top. I eventually began to enjoy what I was doing for its own sake, but I never got over the thrill that this was pleasing her.
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