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Do Lunch or Not Do Lunch? That is the question....  

FallonSteve1 51M
15 posts
11/7/2014 7:39 pm

Last Read:
12/7/2014 11:15 am

Do Lunch or Not Do Lunch? That is the question....


I was contacted by a woman on OKCupid a couple of weeks ago and she just wanted to praise me for the honesty in my profile about what I am looking for and to encourage me on my weight-loss goals. We messaged back and forth for the day and I asked if she would like to meet for lunch or something soon. She said yes and that I should find a place and contact her when I had it so that we could pick a day (she works from home so her schedule was a little strange).

I contacted her back a couple of days later with a place but she said that she would need a rain check because of some work issues. I told her that was cool and to contact me when she was ready.

A week and a half went by and I contacted her to see how things were going and if she had any ideas on when she would want to try lunch again. It took her a couple of days and she finally got back to me.

She appologized for taking so long to get back to me and that things were still a little hectic and that she was not blowing me off. She also mentioned that she is looking to move to NYC at the beginning of the year with a friend but would still like to meet up for lunch if I am interested.

What do you think? She seems pretty cool but i have actually done this before and it sucked meeting someone that I liked just to have them move away.

Lunch? or no Lunch?

LELOLOVER 60F
1 post
11/7/2014 7:41 pm

No lunch


Hello_againSSS 62F
49 posts
11/8/2014 10:00 pm

No lunch. Sorry darling


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
12/2/2014 9:39 am

Well that would depend on your interests --- purely friendship -- LUNCH. Relationship --- no lunch.


FallonSteve1 51M
125 posts
12/7/2014 11:15 am

Just an FYI, she ended up calling it off because she had met someone.


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