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Do you like a sexually agressive partner?  

butttoyboy 60M
37 posts
4/1/2014 8:21 am
Do you like a sexually agressive partner?


If you've checked my profile, you know why my answer is yes. For those other Standard members like me who can't view most profiles, I'll quickly explain that I'm a bi guy who prefers to bottom (although I can top in the right situation with the right people, for anyone who might be thinking of contacting me!!). In addition, I get off being sexually humiliated, which is a completely submissive act.

My first real gf probably helped cement this tendency in me. She loved to get me hard, then tell me to go ahead and take care of myself and she'd watch, maybe. She also cheated on we twice with different guys, and then loved telling me all about what they did. And she was the one who talked about tying me to a chair and forcing me to watch while she fucked another guy, just to see if I would get so excited I would cum while watching, with no physical contact. And I really did enjoy this abuse!

Later, another woman I went out with for just a short time, loved to go on walks in the parks around the area. It was a warm summer and I wore shorts constantly. but this was the late '80's and shorts were actually short back then. And this woman told me I could never wear underwear when I was with her! This caused me all sorts of consternation, as she LOVED to wear revealing things herself such as REALLY short running shorts, tee shirts and tank tops, no bras, well you get the idea. This kept me in an almost constant state of arousal and forever trying to keep my cock covered! But on the walks, she liked to hold my hand and tell me I couldn't adjust anything with the other, and I would just have to let things "hang as they may". But I loved all that too!!

Another gf loved to grab my cock or ass at the most unexpected and sometimes inappropriate times. She loved to play with it while I was driving (thank the engineers for cruise control!!). Walking around the county fair, she was constantly grabbing my ass. Sitting in restraunts, she always sat next to me so she could stroke my cock through my pants, getting me good and hard, regardless of whether it was a table or a booth! And she was the first to actually fuck my ass with a double headed dildo (though I'd been doing myself for years).

I think I've been pretty lucky to spend that time with those 3 ladies. I wish it could have continued longer with any one of them, but that's just the way life goes I suppose. So please tell me, have you ever had an aggressive partner? If so, what did she do and did you like it?

butttoyboy 60M
337 posts
4/14/2014 8:31 am

    Quoting  :

You would be so much fun to control and dominate!!

Obviously I'd never be the one to dominate you, since I like to be dominated myself, but I can definitely appreciate you for who you are and I sincerely hope you find the person you're looking for!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
6/13/2014 11:03 am

My partner does and I love it! He does sometime let me take control too which is fun! hugs V



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butttoyboy 60M
337 posts
6/16/2014 7:36 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    My partner does and I love it! He does sometime let me take control too which is fun! hugs V


That's great that you two work so well together! I have to admit to a little bit of jealousy hearing about couples that mesh so well, but it also makes me happy to know that you are out there and that the world is a little better place because you are happy.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
6/16/2014 11:05 am

What called being together for so many years.. You figure out what you like and what he likes and work with it.. hugs V



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butttoyboy 60M
337 posts
6/17/2014 7:31 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    What called being together for so many years.. You figure out what you like and what he likes and work with it.. hugs V


I just hope I can figure it out as well as you have!


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