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Am I Lazy?????  

tulsaliza 65F
5485 posts
11/19/2020 11:35 am
Am I Lazy?????


I've been thinking about why I simply don't want engage in trying find a good selection of naughty, nasty playmates and I've come the conclusion that I'm simply lazy!!

I don't want screen and re-screen the potential list of playmates. Then is the process of trying figure out if a guy is worth venturing forth and meeting over a cup of coffee in a public place.

I don't want do endless emails see if is any interest on my part or the guy's part...I don't want exchange pics or and or sext.

I simply don't want put forth the necessary effort find viable playmates!!! Does that make me lazy??

When the deceased hubby was alive, I felt much more safe and confident that I could go forth and explore and experience because he was always close by. He was always within a phone away and could be at my side within moments if he needed be...I don't have that anymore and I dont know if I'll ever have again.

I seem get really overwhelmed when I start going through profiles, pics and such. I have had cut off corresponding after a few emails because the guy started exhibiting possessive tendencies and asking why I hadn't emailed in a couple of days...seriously.

Anyway, if this means I'm lazy, so be it.

Do you think I'm being lazy?

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
11/19/2020 3:04 pm

I'm not sure lazy is quite the word. But YES, the process can be quite daunting (AND frustrating!!) so maybe the word is hesitant.

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missthee 58F  
4511 posts
11/20/2020 6:10 am

Maybe it's ennui?

Hope that something or someone will bring back the lost spark!


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