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My personal advice for the ladies here...
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My personal advice for the ladies here... Well yesterday I did a blog for the ladies in which we men give you advice. The #1 thing was posted was to have yourself get CONFIRMED status on this dating site, so we know you are real. Of course, I kept from mentioning my stuff because I wanted to mention my advice for the ladies to better help you get noticed on a dating site. So I'm going to provide some tips on what I think is the best advice I can give you ladies when being on a dating website. Now this doesn't have to be just for here, but it can be applied to other websites like Tinder, Bumble, Plenty of Fish, or other websites out there. So here goes my list of things to do and not to do, in no particular order... 1) Like I said from yesterday, get a high quality camera to take some decent photos of yourself. If you are using an old camera, is not going to cut it nowadays. You need to take high quality pictures of yourself in order to get noticed. way we can really see who you really are! Also make sure the photos have a face picture of you, and the photos are recent, and not from - years ago! 2) More than one picture is needed! I can see if you are just starting out, at least get one picture up there. But really you need at least a couple of them. We men have been trained here if you have only one picture here, we ignore your profile. WHY? Because the scammers at least use 1 photo on their profile to try and draw in unsuspecting men to trick them into giving out information. If you have at least 3 or 4 photos, then we know you should be real, because the scammers create basic shit profiles to try and draw us men in. 3) Take the time to fill in your profiles! If you do a half-ass job on filling out your profile, we know you are not putting in 0% effort into actually meeting someone here. Thus, we men are going to ignore your profile. This also means if you get your profile done with a CONFIRMED status here, we know you are serious and real here. 4) For this site only: If you create your own blog here, and read other men's blogs here, we know you are at least interested in us! 's like giving us a sign you are at least curious about us men! And we appreciate , because let's be honest....some of us men are clueless when it comes to catching signs women are interested in us. And doesn't mean we're dumb. just means we are not educated in the ways of recognizing women are interested in us. Case in point: ME. I have an above-average IQ. I'm a data center engineer. I'm not bragging here, but I believe I'm a smart person. However, when it comes to women and recognizing signs women are interested in myself, I'm fucking clueless. I'm as dense as a brick when it comes to stuff like . So help make it easy on us men! 5) Ease up on the makeup! Most men do not like their women with caked on makeup! Oh sure, if it's a night on the town, and you want to look great, 's fine once in a while. But if you have on more than 2-3 layers of foundation, makeup, and whatever other layers are slapped on like concrete, makes a woman look like crap. 6) More photo tips! Don't make duck faces. Don't have your primary photo with you and several friends in the first picture. I can't tell which one is you, and if I like one of the girls in the photo, and then the second photo is your stupid ass in the next photo, I don't like to fucking detective figuring out you are using your friends as a front in order to sucker in men. 's deceptive as shit and it's wrong to do. Your profile should be about YOU not your friends and you. I've even seen photos where every picture in the profile was all friends, and I couldn't figure out who the actual profile is. Don't waste our time like ladies, shit is just wrong on so many levels! Another thing, don't use filters. If you want to have one black and white artistic photo in there, make sure it's the 3 or 4th one in the profile, to show your arty side. But stop it with the stupid flower crowns, the fake glasses photo, and the rest of the bullshit filters. We want to see YOU, not some stupid bullshit like . 7) If you match with someone, make every effort to meet same week if possible! You do not have to give out your number or info. Just tell the guy, "Hey I would like to meet up in a neutral location. Can we get together on Friday evening at 6PM at this Starbucks at (XYZ location)?" OR....have him suggest a place. This way, we know you are SERIOUS about actually meeting. Even if a guy counters and says, "Hey I can't do Friday, I have plans. How about Saturday at noon?" As long as he counters and provides a day close to it, and you are available, or you both agree on a day within ONE WEEK's TIME, it's all good. If not, and neither one of you can set a day to meet, either you are too busy or he's too busy, then one of you is not serious about meeting or you are afraid, or he's afraid. The objective goal is to meet people, not to talk to people forever!  I forgot what 8 was for.9-. FOR EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING! (Sorry, had to slip in some Violent Femmes in there) Ok, is a good start for my personal advice for the ladies. What advice can you offer, whether it be for men or for women, when it comes to dating sites HERE or elsewhere? Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent  |
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I completely agree with Granny. I will fill in all the blanks with whomever I deem worthy. I feel the same for men....just give us enough so that we wanna know more and will share more of our selves with you. Noone reads those wordy profiles......and please please please stay away from the cock shots...if we want em...we will ask. Who wants the whole world seeing their partners appendages.....unless of course we both wanna share. Its all about compatibility and communication~~
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There's been scores of them written over the years by women.Their opening statements were generally much harsher but their hope was that somehow they could instill something in grown men that is developed at at much younger age.It's something really smart people are often accused of having very little of! After reading everyone of them I found them to be merely common sense.Which apparently a lot of guys don't have or don't see any need to use here. Women don't need any advice on account of a simple and I quote ,"We can have sex anytime and as much as we want!" I hope that wasn't something you just happened to have forgotten! Using more than all the road!
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Some quick comments. "High quality" camera , "decent" photos.... I'd rather post amateur job low-res pics that depict the real day-to-day me, which means I possess average/unprofessional photography skills. I'm not trying to be the next IG star, I'm just trying to be spontaneous "me." The first pics I posted on my vanilla dating profile (late 2014) were made with a 3mpix dumbphone. I didn't show my face. Actually, they were goofy shots ... eg. of me wandering into a men's public restroom. They worked... "More than one pic is needed" (to prove it is a legit profile) Could be the case wrt the demographics of your geographical location. In my country zone, there is a substantial number of fake/phisher/catfisher profiles with scores of pics on their profiles; however, yet all/most of those pics are "borrowed" from the interwebs, as revealed by reverse image search. "make every effort to meet same week if possible" IMHO that's the best piece of advice for women. If you (women) are on the fence about meeting the guy soon, then most likely there's little/no chemistry, and/or red flags are making you wary. Meet a.s.a.p., or don't bother at all.
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5/2/2019 9:17 am |
lol I did all of that when i joined but to some men it wasnt enough ..kind of have to laugh at a few of these because not all standards can read or see pictures on a gold profile ..and then you get those assholes who are not satisfied with just a profile write up and pictures they want videos..ha ha ha ...they also treat all women alike assume some women who advertise their pictures in every blog post or continually ask the guys if they " like the pics" thats on the blog post...ha ha ha again, what guy isnt gonna like the pics of a 26 year old or older woman, do you think they are gonna say no?.....IQ's disappear when ppl sign up on here as well as respect and maturity not to mention intelligence...
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5/2/2019 9:01 am |
yes i agree be specific in your message.........
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Ok post your advice here! Whether it's for men, for women, about men, about women, when it comes to dating websites! I want to hear it! Or if you think I'm cracked and off my rocker, post suggestion that are better! And I dare the women to come up with an advice blog so we men can comment and let you know what we think! Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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