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First time SEX GAMES to play with your lover: Scenarios : )
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First time SEX GAMES to play with your lover: Scenarios : ) This post is for those of you who are bored with everyday sex and want to add some fun and excitement to your sex life. Here is your assignment for the week. I am writing this as I would instruct someone who has never done anything like this before and this will be their first time. 1). Choose a date, at least one or two weeks away where you can guarantee you and your lover can be alone with no possibility of interruption. (Make sure you have the days off from work, and babysitters etc.) 2). (This is simply a suggestion and not a requirement for this little scenario to work. Please keep reading). Choose to invite a friend or acquaintance and find out how your lover feels about that, and how you feel about the possibility of another man or woman joining your little adventure. 3). Find a way, to tie up your lover. This works best in a standing position, but you can try this lying flat on a bed, preferably knees bend and spread a bit. You must find out how willing and receptive your lover is going to handle this idea. If you have discussed or attempted this in the past and the answer was an absolute no, you can still pull this off with a simple compromise. Please understand that there are very dominate trust issues at stake here. Plan carefully and think of every possible thing that could go wrong so that you can quickly get your lover out of the restraints in the event of an emergency. If your lover has issues, then simply tie them up with something that will break very quickly if needed, like sewing thread. The whole point is to have them become submissive. Sewing thread is a quick easy escape. You will get the same effect that you desire. The goal is, to have your partner want to stay in the position they are in, NOT to be in a position they were forced into and cannot get out of. If you must, you can get him or her to agree to the terms without question, all or nothing and give no hints of the evening's plans. You might try something like "since you're not willing to be tied up, here's my compromise: you will hold on to (these ropes, etc) and you will not let go under any circumstance, not without my permission. Do you understand ? 4). You have one week, or two, to drive them crazy wondering what is going to happen on this day. Tell them in advance, not to make any plans on the day you picked and don't answer any questions at all about that day. 5). Now come up with a list of questions to ask your lover. Somehow you need to get these answered before the date so that you can make plans as you may need time to trouble shoot things in order to pull this off. You can decide whether you want your lover to know that you want the answers to these questions, or find another way of finding out the answers such as having them emailed to them from an anonymous email, a note left in their pocket, lunch bag, car, mailed with an anonymous regular postal address to send it back to such as general delivery at the post office attention whomever, or ask a friend to watch for a letter in the mail from your wife or husband and have it go to their address or p.o. box to keep it more interesting. Here are some suggestions: (These questions are from a woman to a man, so you may need to edit them> Feel free to copy and paste them as you want. Timing is of the essence and these questions need to be answered. You have 2 days to answer every question. When you have completed this questionnaire send it to: (--------) This is a TEST !! AND there's rules that go along with it !!!!!! FIRST of all: You have to answer honestly ....... if you can't ....then leave it blank. For every answer you give me, I will totally and completely deep throat that wonderful cock of yours !!!!!!! and for every blank you leave me, I'm going to base my actions on whatever I decide the answer to be........ SECOND .....everything you say, WILL be held against you. THIRD......do not answer to please me. Answer according to what YOU want and desire....what captures your curiosity.....what intrigues YOU !!!!!!! LAST. I want to know EXACTLY what YOU want.....WHAT "gets your swerve up" what hits the spot...what makes your cock hard instantly.....what you fantasize about whan you masturbate......what pictures you paint to look at while you're masturbating..... And be carefule....hehehehe !!!!!!!! I've included some things I alread know just to see if your are paying attention ....or lying !!! LOL NOW........before you start.......I want you good and horny !!!!! SO......before you answer ANY question..... I want you to stand up,..... unbuckle you belt.....unzip your pants.....push them down to your thighs........and masturbate for me.....RIGHT NOW ! If your cock isn't already hard........keep stroking it.....!!!!!! Answer all questions hosnestly... ...you can answer in the spaces between the questions then send this back to me. Remember: the intensity of your pleasure depends on the answers you give me....... LOL These questions are not in any way written to imply breaking any of "the rules". "Redlight" will always apply, unless specifially mentioned before hand, and equally agreed. Don't do anything you don't want to, no pain....ect. and some of these questions are just written to fuck with your head.....LOL 1) What roles do you like to play ? OR would like to play ? a) teacher (to include "first times" example: teach a girl to suck cock, for the first time or a girl's first time anal b) dominant (within reason) c) helping with a girl's first time bi experience (teach her just how to suck on a clit) d) teaching another guy how to go down on a girl (his first time) e) virgin...you play the part f) submissive (within reason) g) forceful (within reason) 2) Do you fantasize about being tied up ? 3) If so, in your fantasy.....are you able to get free on your own ? 4) What would you allow yourself to be tied up with ? a) rope b) leather straps c) metal safety handcuffs d) Smith and Wesson handcuffs (no safety latch... 2 keys) e) velcro handcuffs with quick release clips (no, you can't reach the clips) f) chains g) sewing thread h) licorice ropes (yes, the candy) 5) If asked, what would you be willing to participate in/do? (if the situation/people present/atmosphere was just right) a) a threesome 2 men, one woman (while I watch) b) three men, one woman c) more than 5 women, you are the only man, and I direct each girl, telling them exactly what I want them to do to you d) sex in public e) sex while other couples watch ( them sitting in the dark, with a spot light on us) f) play the role of a stranger g) make a porno movie (direct it..... talk on camera) h) allow yourself to be photographed (naked, various positions, while masturbating ) (no face shots) i) make a sexy audio tape 6) Do you like having your ass played with ? a) with my tongue b) my finger c) tiny vibrator (soft) d) ice e) candy cane (not till Christmas !!!) f) something you haven't told me........ ? Tell me what it is ___. 7) Would you enjoy wearing .... a) women's silk panties b) pantyhose c) bra (pretty lacy one....... )  What populates your fantasies ?a) lace/silk b) vanilla flavor or smell c) certain dirty words (be very specific....... please ??? d) flowers ( or the smell) f) foods g) leather h) plastic i) rubber j) expensive woods (cherry, oak, rosewood...or their aromas) k) fetish items.... TELL ME ! l) sex toys m) music n) temperature o) small enclosed spaces p) being watched by strangers (inside a limo..... sharing a cab ride) q) watching strangers fuck r) movie vehicles (trains, car, boat, plane) s) sex outdoors (in the snow, rain (I remember you said thunderstorms) t) being blindfolded 9) Which do you want used on you ? a) Vibrator b) Anal beads c) double penetrating dildo d) vibrating egg e) whip f) paddle g) ice cubes h) strap on i) nipple clamps 10) Do you enjoy sex under the influence of drugs or alcohol ? a) which ones..... 11) Do you have a fetish for any of these particular items ? a) legs b) tits c) gloves d) leather e) silk f) pantyhose g) toes h) fingers i) ass j) feet k) foods l) uniforms m) shoes n) a particular profession (teacher, librarian, stripper, doctor, police) o) other objects 12) Which dirty words turn you on? a) fuck b) suck c) pussy d) cock e) tits f) breasts g) slut h) 13) Do you like being told exactly what to do... (being given precise instructions ? 14) What roles do you like a girl to play ? a) slut b) c) horny bitch c) prim and propper (school teacher) d) rough and tough e) Miss Barbie f) typical blonde g) neglected housewife h) bad little girl i) professional (doctor/lawyer) 15) Would you like to walk into an orgie already in progress, or be there at the beginning, when the first guest shows up, watching everything orchastrate...... instigating.... 16) What are your favorite sexual positions ? a) You, on your hands, bent over, ass and feet up on a tall bed, doing a handstand b) you on your hands and knees c) 69 d) woman on top e) doggie style f) table/counter g) shower/pool/hot tub h) against the wall 17) What do you consider to be the sexiest parts of a woman's body a) face b) legs c) tits d) ass e) hands/fingers f) mouth g) lips h) pussy i) feet 1 Is there anything left out of this questionnaire that you wish or desire and are too chicken to tell your lover ?You must include this no matter what you THINK your lover will say Tell me______________________. 19) What things do you dislike. Place them here: Remember......... every blank you leave........ I will base my actions on whatever I wanted your answer to be......... and I'll deep throat your wonderful cock, for every answer you give me !!!!!! 6) Continuation from point before all the questions: Find a small box and some sticky notes. You are going to write on these sticky notes and place them in the box for your lover to pick them out, one at a time. Make sure you have 2 different colored stacks of notes. One one of the colors either red or pink notes, write some type of reward. Make sure there is a time limit for each note and make sure your lover knows what the time limit is. Over all, choose one but keep in mind if you end of with 50 notes and you want to spend 10 minutes on each, this is going to take days so keep it short, you want them all complete within the single session of this one special day. So I suggest 3 minutes each if you have around 16 notes, that's a total of 48 minutes straight. You want rewards on one color, and simple punishments on the other color. Make sure your lover knows in advance, that this color is a reward, and this color is a punishment, and they will be choosing each on their own until the box is empty and hopefully, there won't be 20 punishments in a row. Sample rewards and punishments. You must decide what punishment is sufficient and what is too severe, this is meant to be a fun and erotic game, not a game of physical torture. REWARDS: Vibrator held against their cock or clit for your time limit (3 minutes) oral sex a maraschino cherry placed in their mouth, or feed them their favorite flavor of ice cream for 3 minutes( I like to food flavors added so that the flavor in their mouth is also associated with one more of the five senses, while experiencing others like the vibrator or whatever. masturbate your partner PUNISHMENTS Rub a huge piece of ice across their naked body for 3 minutes apply very gentle nipple clamps Be sure to use things from their list of questions that they didn't like spank them (I prefer gentle/medium swats) tickle them Blindfold them cover their mouth with tape or scarf tied (not too tight !) 7) Make sure, that just in case, you give your lover a safe word. Something that will stop the scenario and temporarily postpone the game for whatever reason, bathroom break, muscle cramps, what ever the emergency. The word I suggest is red-light. Most likely your lover is going to completely forget all about the safe word because they are so distracted, so make sure you don't push them too far. You may consider making a voice recording. If you have a friend close enough to ask this favor of, if not, you may find some text to speech freebie program on the internet. Once you begin your scenario and your lover is tied up, and blindfolded, you may want to record a knock on the door, and have some friend record a conversations with you about your tied up lover and your plans for them. If your partner is blindfolded, they won't necessarily know that someone else is NOT in the room. It's fairly easy to pull off making them think there is by using a long stick with maybe a glove taped to it, so that you can touch their feet with it while making it totally obvious to your partner that you are at their head kissing them or something. Don't forget to make a recording of your friend saying good-bye, you telling them thank you and how great it was, and then the door closing without your lover every having the blindfold being taken off. Write out a time-frame kind of script for what will lead up to starting the recording, when to pause it, and when to play the good-bye thank you part with the sound of the door closing. You may just want a strangers voice, knocking on the door, introducing them self and asking if they can watch, then your voice giving them permission as long as they do not interfere. 9) Consider a little alcohol, and once your lover is tied up and bound, have them drink at least 2 or 3 shots of something to help them relax. Or, you can include an occasional shot of tequila or something in your notes of punishments. 10) There is a lot of planning when considering such a scenario. There are endless variations you can come up with. You may wish to tell your partner nothing until you arrive at dinner at a restaurant and hand them the questionnaire. You may not get the detailed answers you want if you rush them through dinner. You may not get answers to things that were left out of the questionnaire that you want them to tell you, and don't forget, it's easier to write down what you want rather then tell your partner what you want, face to face. IF you choose not saying anything until dinner, here's a way to start it off. First of all go for an early dinner, around 3, 4 or 5pm so that you aren't rushed. Give them the questions at the beginning and let them know you expect every answer before dinner will be over. Use a firm, dominating yet quite voice. Say something like: Today I want to take you to a place you've never been. I want to make you cum harder than you ever have before in the most intense way humanly possible and I'm really going to enjoy myself doing it. I want you to trust me, and it's for this reason that I give you a safeword. If anything gets to be too much, or you want to stop, or an emergency comes up I want you to say "redlight", and I will immediately stop whatever I'm doing. Otherwise you can say stop, don't, no, all you want and I'm not going to stop. Do you agree to this ? Ask them if they have any questions and let them know that just because they ask, doesn't mean they will get an answer. Don't give away many details, and leave as many unanswered questions as you can get away with. 11) Don't forget to use a dominating, deep, new and different voice. This will only add to the intensity of the whole experience. You may need a few days to practice, especially if you've never done this, you don't want to crack up laughing all the time, or it's never going to be believable. Don't forget to give them specific commands such as "You will not move ! If you move, I will double the punishment time, or I will cut the pleasure time in half." Lastly, consider your own feelings. You may really enjoy this. Be sure to include things that really turn you on. If you have any questions or need more help planning just post a comment and I will answer asap. |
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1 post 11/4/2015 6:37 am |
amazing thought out details...love it...
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5/28/2013 10:00 am |
mmm very nice! got turned on just by reading this! 
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