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she has provocative pictures therefore she wants to get fucked or she is on a sex site therefore she wants to get fucked or she has provocative pictures and she is on a sex site and therefore she wants to be treated like an object and get fucked...lol when in fact: one has nothing to do with the other... being on a sex site or having sensual photos has nothing to do with what i want. this is just a convenient medium for me. I find these ideas on here very similar to the myths about and similarly the myths about have not a lot to do with the facts... Amnesty International in a national survey 34% believe women who flirt can be blamed if they are and 26% say if a woman is in<b> sexy clothing </font></b>she is partly to blame ?WOMEN who flirt, get drunk or wear sexy clothes are asking to be , according to a shocking new survey.? ?More than a third of people - mainly males - believe girls trying to chat up men are partially or totally responsible for being attacked.? ?A quarter reckon a woman wearing a provocative outfit is at least partly to blame - especially if she has been drinking.? ?One in 12 thinks she is a natural target if she has had a number of sexual partners.? ?And a third believe she is responsible to some degree if she has clearly failed to say No? ?The disturbing attitudes towards and victims were uncovered by Amnesty International in a national survey to promote its Stop Violence Against Women campaign.? when in fact: Fact: and sexual assault are crimes of violence and control that stem from a person's determination to exercise power over another. Neither provocative dress nor promiscuous behavior are invitations for unwanted sexual activity. Forcing someone to engage in non-consensual sexual activity is sexual assault, regardless of the way that person dresses or acts.? FACT: Victims are chosen because of their vulnerability, not because they are sexually provocative. |
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The attacker is always to blame however there is the following parable to consider. The Scorpion and the Frog One day, a scorpion looked around at the mountain where he lived and decided that he wanted a change. So he set out on a journey through the forests and hills. He climbed over rocks and under vines and kept going until he reached a river. The river was wide and swift, and the scorpion stopped to reconsider the situation. He couldn't see any way across. So he ran upriver and then checked downriver, all the while thinking that he might have to turn back. Suddenly, he saw a frog sitting in the rushes by the bank of the stream on the other side of the river. He decided to ask the frog for help getting across the stream. "Hellooo Mr. Frog!" called the scorpion across the water, "Would you be so kind as to give me a ride on your back across the river?" "Well now, Mr. Scorpion! How do I know that if I try to help you, you wont try to kill me?" asked the frog hesitantly. "Because," the scorpion replied, "If I try to kill you, then I would die too, for you see I cannot swim!" Now this seemed to make sense to the frog. But he asked. "What about when I get close to the bank? You could still try to kill me and get back to the shore!" "This is true," agreed the scorpion, "But then I wouldn't be able to get to the other side of the river!" "Alright then...how do I know you wont just wait till we get to the other side and THEN kill me?" said the frog. "Ahh...," crooned the scorpion, "Because you see, once you've taken me to the other side of this river, I will be so grateful for your help, that it would hardly be fair to reward you with death, now would it?!" So the frog agreed to take the scorpion across the river. He swam over to the bank and settled himself near the mud to pick up his passenger. The scorpion crawled onto the frog's back, his sharp claws prickling into the frog's soft hide, and the frog slid into the river. The muddy water swirled around them, but the frog stayed near the surface so the scorpion would not drown. He kicked strongly through the first half of the stream, his flippers paddling wildly against the current. Halfway across the river, the frog suddenly felt a sharp sting in his back and, out of the corner of his eye, saw the scorpion remove his stinger from the frog's back. A deadening numbness began to creep into his limbs. "You fool!" croaked the frog, "Now we shall both die! Why on earth did you do that?" The scorpion shrugged, and did a little jig on the drownings frog's back. "I could not help myself. It is my nature." Then they both sank into the muddy waters of the swiftly flowing river. Being in the right doesn't help in some situations. Simple avoidance of potential problems is far wiser.    The perversity of the universe is unbounded.
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it is funny that you think this post is about sex and labeling someone a pervert. this post is not about sex at all. this post is really about perceptions... and you just proved my point...lol
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The attacker is always to blame however there is the following parable to consider. The Scorpion and the Frog One day, a scorpion looked around at the mountain where he lived and decided that he wanted a change. So he set out on a journey through the forests and hills. He climbed over rocks and under vines and kept going until he reached a river. The river was wide and swift, and the scorpion stopped to reconsider the situation. He couldn't see any way across. So he ran upriver and then checked downriver, all the while thinking that he might have to turn back. Suddenly, he saw a frog sitting in the rushes by the bank of the stream on the other side of the river. He decided to ask the frog for help getting across the stream. "Hellooo Mr. Frog!" called the scorpion across the water, "Would you be so kind as to give me a ride on your back across the river?" "Well now, Mr. Scorpion! How do I know that if I try to help you, you wont try to kill me?" asked the frog hesitantly. "Because," the scorpion replied, "If I try to kill you, then I would die too, for you see I cannot swim!" Now this seemed to make sense to the frog. But he asked. "What about when I get close to the bank? You could still try to kill me and get back to the shore!" "This is true," agreed the scorpion, "But then I wouldn't be able to get to the other side of the river!" "Alright then...how do I know you wont just wait till we get to the other side and THEN kill me?" said the frog. "Ahh...," crooned the scorpion, "Because you see, once you've taken me to the other side of this river, I will be so grateful for your help, that it would hardly be fair to reward you with death, now would it?!" So the frog agreed to take the scorpion across the river. He swam over to the bank and settled himself near the mud to pick up his passenger. The scorpion crawled onto the frog's back, his sharp claws prickling into the frog's soft hide, and the frog slid into the river. The muddy water swirled around them, but the frog stayed near the surface so the scorpion would not drown. He kicked strongly through the first half of the stream, his flippers paddling wildly against the current. Halfway across the river, the frog suddenly felt a sharp sting in his back and, out of the corner of his eye, saw the scorpion remove his stinger from the frog's back. A deadening numbness began to creep into his limbs. "You fool!" croaked the frog, "Now we shall both die! Why on earth did you do that?" The scorpion shrugged, and did a little jig on the drownings frog's back. "I could not help myself. It is my nature." Then they both sank into the muddy waters of the swiftly flowing river. Being in the right doesn't help in some situations. Simple avoidance of potential problems is far wiser. my post isn't about , it isn't really about sex. it isn't about being right. it is about perception vs fact. and how our own brains get in the way of reality...
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nope not my perception--lol as you can see be some of the email i have posted for your viewing pleasure. and if you go to some of the lovely women in my reading list and look at the emails they get you would see it isn't a perception thing but a fact... if you have a profile on a sex site no matter what you say in your profile some idiot will write you something stupid. which brings me back to something in your first post: don't make the rest of us feel like perverts because we think about sex after seeing erotic photos i dont care what you think about after you look at my photos what i care about is how you address me after you look at my photos. example : look at my photos and jerk off and never email me. have at it... look at my photos, jerk off, email me saying you like my profile and photos and thanks. have at it... look at my photos, jerk off, and email me how you want to fuck me and can i ride it all night long. blah blah blah when my profile says expressly no thanks then you are a complete schmuck... oh and no one can make you feel anything. you choose to feel and you choose how to act. my problem is the number of men that choose to act like an idiot...lol
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