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Blogs > HunterMoon7 > Random Sunbeams

To Web Cam, or not to Web Cam, that is the question ...  

HunterMoon7 60M
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12/31/2010 8:29 am

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To Web Cam, or not to Web Cam, that is the question ...
So, I got a new web cam as a holiday gift.

I know that many new laptops come with them, so the ability to use them is both easy and constantly available. However, my laptop is a bit older, so my new web cam is an add on.

That means that in order to use it, I have to:
1. Think about using it.
2. Dig it out of the drawer where it is kept
3. Clear space for it (the reason it lives in the drawer)
4. Plug it in and start the software
5. Figure out viewing angle (face or dick)
6. Putz with exposure, contrast, color and white balance (I have a bright window behind me)
7. Decide whether or not I really want to "Share" with others (I'm not typically exhibitionistic)
8. IMC / Share / Broadcast

It sometimes seems to be a bit of an effort. I guess that what I'm wondering is ... is it worth it?

Take yesterday as an example. I was on IMC chatting with a friend. Things were going nicely, both of us had cams going, and she decided to show me her tits (which were very nice, by the way). The problem is, I can't touch 'em or suck on her nipples through the cam window! Sure, I can show her an erect cock ... but unless we decide on some<b> mutual masturbation ... </font></b>it's not much of a muchness. Then her comes home ... then my drops by for a visit ... Jeez! So let's tuck everything away, and go play host. At least in person, we could have been in the bedroom rather than wherever the computer is located, kicked the door closed, and hollared, we'll be out later. That at least seems to be acceptable. Sitting around in bathrobes in front of web cams, or pumping your dick when a family member (with house keys) arrives uannounced. Well, it's a bit of a deflator ... if you know what I mean.

I think that this is why I'm not much into fantasy about film stars, porn stars, or any other woman I can't meet "in the flesh". They just aren't "real". I guess that I don't mind a little "looky looky", as long as it is part of some regular "nookie, nookie".

Then there is the other extreme. A few months back, I was trysting with a friend of mine (with benefits). Neither of us was exclusive, and she was into camming. So the situation evolved from me dropping by for several hours of hot sex (which was on the menu) ... to her just giving me a series of blow jobs (on cam), while she continued to chat with other friends (her computer is in the bedroom, right next to the bed). Yeah, a little voyueristic/exhibitionistic thrill ... but not what was originally planned. I mean, really, leave the cam on if you must ... but put the damn keyboard down! I wanted some pussy! Even doggy style was out, because her audience couldn't watch the action, and her still be able to type at the same time! Good theater does not always equate to good sex.

So the question remains: To Web Cam, or not to Web Cam?

Well, for those old enoug to remember the commercial, and to dispute with Ella Fitzgerald, "live is definately better than Memorex"!

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